Sebastiana Milardo

Great-grandparent – 1 of 8 in this generation

(7 July 1910 – 22 September 1989)

Sebastiana was born in July 1910 in Melilli, Sicily to Filippo Milardo and Lucia Marino. Her birth record can be viewed here.

She married Salvatore Sanzaro in Melilli when she was 17 and he was 24; their marriage record can be viewed here.

Sebastiana and Salvatore immigrated to the U.S. in 1955 on the ship Olympia and settled in Middletown, Connecticut with their family.

Sebastiana died at the age of 79 and was buried next to her husband in St. Sebastian’s Cemetery, Middlefield, CT.

View her tree at familysearch.org: Sebastiana’s tree

Salvatore Sanzaro

Great-grandparent – 1 of 8 in this generation

(1902-1976)

Salvatore was born on 27 December 1902 in Melilli, Sicily to Vincenzo Sanzaro, age 29, and Anna Fazzino, age 27. His birth record may be viewed here. Salvatore, like his father, was a tenant sharecropper. They grew olives and figs on the farm. In October of 1927, Salvatore married 17-year-old Sebastiana Milardo in Melilli and had seven children:

  1. Vincenzo, b.1929, died young
  2. Anna, b.1932
  3. Vincenzo, b.1933
  4. Lucia, b.1936
  5. Maria Concetta, b.1939
  6. Rosario, b.1945
  7. Sebastiano

Along with so many others from Melilli, Salvatore and Sebastiana immigrated to Middletown, Connecticut. They first arrived at Ellis Island, NY on December 24, 1955 after an 11-day ocean voyage.

Salvatore died in 1976 at the age of 74 and was buried in St. Sebastian’s Cemetery, Middlefield, CT.

View his tree at familysearch.org: Salvatore’s tree.

Mildred Hazel Kelsey

Great-grandparent – 1 of 8 in this generation

(1906-1986)

Mildred was born in Middletown, Connecticut on 4 September 1906. Her mother, Ida Estella Barrows, was 38, and her father, Eugene Dudley Kelsey, was 41. Mildred grew up in a small home at 422 Washington Street in Middletown, near the area where the train bridge spans the road and across from Indian Hill Cemetery.

At the age of 19, on 21 August 1926, she married Frank Quinn Gaylord. They would eventually have 12 children. When Mildred was pregnant with her 7th child, she nearly died in a suicide attempt. Consequently, five of her children were placed in foster care and two, including the 7th, were put up for adoption. Mildred and Frank then had five more children. They struggled financially and the children did not attend high school, opting to start work as soon as possible. Mildred died on 11 July 1986 in East Hampton and was buried in Skinnerville Cemetery, East Hampton, CT in an unmarked grave.

Children of Frank Quinn GAYLORD and Mildred Hazel Kelsey:

  1. Gloria Elizabeth
  2. Joan E.
  3. Mary Jane
  4. Sally Ann
  5. Mona Hazel
  6. Marilyn May
  7. Frank Quinn
  8. John Frederick
  9. Grace Harriet
  10. Norman Ralph
  11. Patricia Ann
  12. Wallace Francis “Butch”

Frank & Mildred graves

Mildred’s final resting place, Skinnerville Cemetery, East Hampton, CT. Photo taken by Barbara D. Gaylord 11/13/16.

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Frank Quinn Gaylord

Great-grandparent – 1 of 8 in this generation

(1904 – 1993)

Frank was born in Springfield, Massachusetts on 18 June 1904, the son of John Frederick Gaylord and Grace Annie Bashaw. His father died suddenly when Frank was 3 years old leaving seven children to be cared for, not including another one on the way. Frank’s maternal grandparents moved to Springfield to help out, but life must have been difficult. In 1920, at age 16, Frank lived with his mother and five siblings, along with his grandmother, Josephine (Cross) Bashaw, in Revere, Massachusetts.

Frank married Mildred Hazel Kelsey in Middletown, CT on 21 Aug 1926 at the age of 22. His married life was full of heartache. He and Mildred had 12 children. When Mildred was pregnant with her 7th child, she nearly died in a suicide attempt. Consequently, five of their children were placed in foster care and two, including the 7th, were put up for adoption. He and Mildred then had five more children. They moved around quite a bit, struggling financially. The children did not attend high school, opting to start work as soon as possible.

Frank died Middletown in July 1993 at the age of 89, having outlived many of his family members. He was buried in Skinnerville Cemetery, East Hampton, CT in an unmarked grave.

1910 U.S. Census

Name: Frank O Gaylord
[Frank Quinn Gaylord
Age in 1910: 5
Birth Year: abt 1905
Birthplace: Massachusetts
Home in 1910: Springfield Ward 1, Hampden, Massachusetts
Street: Main Street
Race: White
Gender: Male
Relation to Head of House: Son
Marital Status: Single
Father’s Birthplace: Massachusetts
Mother’s name: Grace A Gaylord
Mother’s Birthplace: Vermont
Attended School: Yes
Neighbors: View others on page
Household Members:
Name Age
Louis Bashaw 57
Josephine E Bashaw 52
Grace A Gaylord 35
Edward Gaylord 14
John F Gaylord 11
Louis Gaylord 10
Joseph Gaylord 9
Evering T Gaylord 7
Frank O Gaylord 5
Grace Gaylord 4
Walter B Gaylord 2

1920 U.S. Census

Frank I Gaylord
[Frank J Gaylord] 
Age: 16
Birth Year: abt 1904
Birthplace: Massachusetts
Home in 1920: Revere Ward 2, Suffolk, Massachusetts
Street: North Shore Road
Race: White
Gender: Male
Relation to Head of House: Son
Marital Status: Single
Father’s Birthplace: Massachusetts
Mother’s name: Grace Gaylord
Mother’s Birthplace: Vermont
Able to Speak English: Yes
Attended School: No
Able to Read: Yes
Able to Write: Yes
Neighbors: View others on page
Household Members:
Name Age
Grace Gaylord 42
John F Gaylord 21
Louis W Gaylord 20
Joseph Geo Gaylord 17
Frank I Gaylord 16
Grace M Gaylord 14
Walter B Gaylord 12
Josephine Bashaw 59

1930 U.S. Census

Name: Frank Gaylord
Birth Year: abt 1904
Gender: Male
Race: White
Birthplace: Massachusetts
Marital Status: Married
Relation to Head of House: Head
Home in 1930: Portland, Middlesex, Connecticut
Map of Home: View Map
Street address: Middle Haddem Road
House Number in Cities or Towns: 116
Dwelling Number: 522
Family Number: 780
Home Owned or Rented: Rented
Home Value: 10
Radio Set: No
Lives on Farm: No
Age at First Marriage: 22
Attended School: No
Able to Read and Write: Yes
Father’s Birthplace: Massachusetts
Mother’s Birthplace: Massachusetts
Able to Speak English: Yes
Occupation: Mechanic
Industry: Garage
Class of Worker: Wage or salary worker
Employment: No
Veteran: Yes
War: WW
Neighbors: View others on page
Household Members:
Name Age
Frank Gaylord 26
Mildred Gaylord 23
Gloria Gaylord 2
Joan Gaylord 0
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1940 U.S. Census

Name:

 

 

Frank F Gaylord
Age: 34
Estimated birth year: abt 1906
Gender: Male
Race: White
Birthplace: Massachusetts
Marital Status: Married
Relation to Head of House: Head
Home in 1940: East Hampton, Middlesex, Connecticut
Map of Home in 1940: View Map
Street: Middle Haddave Road
Farm: No
Inferred Residence in 1935: Middletown, Middlesex, Connecticut
Residence in 1935: Middletown, Middlesex, Connecticut
Resident on farm in 1935: No
Sheet Number: 5B
Number of Household in Order of Visitation: 111
Occupation: Laborer
House Owned or Rented: Rented
Value of Home or Monthly Rental if Rented: 15
Attended School or College: No
Highest Grade Completed: Elementary school, 8th grade
Duration of Unemployment: 88
Weeks Worked in 1939: 35
Income: 450
Income Other Sources: No
Neighbors: View others on page
Household Members:
Name Age
Frank F Gaylord 34
Wildred H Gaylord 33
John F Gaylord 3
Grace H Gaylord 10/12
Frank & Mildred graves
Frank & Mildred’s final resting place, Skinnerville Cemetery, East Hampton, CT

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Mary Matheson Emery

Great-grandparent – 1 of 8 in this generation

(1899-1989)

Mary was born in the Jamaica Plain section of Boston, Suffolk, Massachusetts, the daughter of James Henry Emery and Flora Evelyn MacQuarrie. Her family later moved to Taunton, Bristol, Massachusetts, where her father worked as a barber.

1900 U.S. Census – Boston, Massachusetts

Mary M Emery
Age 1
Birth Date Feb 1898
Birthplace Massachusetts
Home in 1900 Boston Ward 21, Suffolk, Massachusetts
Race White
Gender Female
Relation to Head of House Daughter
Marital Status Single
Father’s Name Jame H Emery
Father’s Birthplace Maine
Mother’s Name Flora Emery
Mother’s Birthplace Canada, England
Household Members
Name Age
Jame H Emery 32
Flora Emery 41
Henietta Emery 5
Hamilton G Emery 2
Mary M Emery 1

1910 U.S. Census – Taunton, Bristol, Massachusetts

Mary M Emery
[Mary M Erperey] 
Age in 1910: 11
Birth Year: abt 1899
Birthplace: Massachusetts
Home in 1910: Taunton Ward 7, Bristol, Massachusetts
Street: Domforth Street
Race: White
Gender: Female
Relation to Head of House: Daughter
Marital Status: Single
Father’s name: Jame H Emery
Father’s Birthplace: Maine
Mother’s name: Flora Emery
Mother’s Birthplace: Canada
[Canada English] 
Native Tongue: English
Attended School: Yes
Able to Read: Yes
Able to Write: Yes
Neighbors: View others on page
Household Members:
Name Age
Jame H Emery 41
Flora Emery 50
Henryetta Emery 15
Hamilton B Emery 12
Mary M Emery 11
James H Emery 9

1920 U.S. Census, Plymouth, Plymouth, Massachusetts

Name: Mary Emery
Age: 20
Birth Year: abt 1900
Birthplace: Massachusetts
Home in 1920: Plymouth, Plymouth, Massachusetts
Street: Sandwick Street
Race: White
Gender: Female
Relation to Head of House: Nurse
Marital Status: Single
Father’s Birthplace: Maine
Mother’s Birthplace: Canada
Able to Speak English: Yes
Occupation: Nurse
Industry: Hospital
Employment Field: Wage or Salary
Attended School: No
Able to Read: Yes
Able to Write: Yes

1930 U.S. Census, San Juan, Puerto Rico

Mary M Collins De
[Mary M Collins
Birth Year: abt 1899
Gender: Female
Race: Blanco (White)
Birthplace: Boston Mass
[Maine] 
Marital Status: Married
Relation to Head of House: Esposa (Wife) 
Home in 1930: San Juan, San Juan, Puerto Rico
Map of Home: View Map
Able to Read and Write: No
Father’s Birthplace: Maine
Mother’s Birthplace: Canada
Household Members:
Name Age
J William Collins 30
Mary M Collins De 31
Flora M Collins [6/12] 
Elva Rosa Rose Mae 24

Mary was a nurse her entire professional career, starting in San Juan, Puerto Rico. There she met and married the love of her life, Bill Collins, on 18 December 1928. They resided there for nearly four years and had their first child there in October of 1929. Bill was an intelligence officer in the Canadian military, but it’s unclear how he spent his time in Puerto Rico and his life, in general, was mysterious.

Here’s an excerpt from a letter Mary wrote to her daughter on 20 December 1967: “Margy dear – Monday was my 39th wedding date and today is Maryann’s birthday. When one realizes the maturity of one’s children, the span of years becomes appalling. It does not seem 39 years ago that we were married in a little church in San Juan, and I was so land sick, that the minister seemed to be weaving back and forth. Your daddy was so poised and calm one would think marriage was a daily event. The one thing he did not expect was a seasick bride.”

Bill was Canadian and Mary had family members in Nova Scotia, so when they left Puerto Rico they settled in Halifax where the girls began their elementary education. Bill died in Sydney, Cape Breton, in 1940 under questionable circumstances. We still don’t know exactly what happened.

Mary was scarred by the loss of her husband and found it difficult to raise two young daughters on her own while she was grieving and trying to earn enough money for the household. At first, she moved with her children to Panama, where her brother, Hill, was working for a fruit company. It is unclear how long they remained in Panama. They may have returned to Halifax for some time, but eventually moved to Providence, RI to live with Mary’s sister, Etta. After some time, they moved again, this time to Warwick, RI, where Hill owned a home on Palm Boulevard.

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Sometime after her girls had graduated from high school, Mary moved to Orlando, Florida where she lived for many years. She had a home with grapefruit growing in the backyard; then she moved into a large apartment building for retirees. Mary was a beautiful woman with sparkling blue eyes, a twinkling smile, and a charming personality. She had a zest for life and was very close to her siblings.

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Grandma Mary & Aunt Etta in their later years

Mary died at the age of 90 on 23 September 1989 at the Groton Regency, a nursing home in Groton, Connecticut. Her sister, Etta, had been living with her there. Mary’s daughter, Margaret, carried her ashes in an urn from Connecticut down to Orlando, Florida, where Mary’s ashes were placed in the earth next to her husband.

Children of William James Collins and Mary Matheson Emery:

1. Flora Margaret

2. Maryann Etta

William James Collins

Great-grandparent – 1 of 8 in this generation

1899-1940

William “Bill” was born on 15 February 1899 in Stratford, Perth, Ontario, Canada, the youngest of four children born to John Henry Collins and Margaret “Maggie” Cornell.

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This picture of WJC might have been taken between 1918-25

In 1914, Canada entered World War I. This was a formative time in Bill’s life and the war shaped his future. He probably enlisted when he turned 18, which was in February of 1917. 25% of enlisted men in Canada were from the province of Ontario, where Bill lived.

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Age 25-30?

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William James Collins (rear center); his brothers, John Henry Collins and Roy Kingsley Collins; his sister, Evelyn; his mother, Maggie; and his father, John Henry Collins.

As I write this, something I’ve often pondered now makes sense to me. My father, Ken Dutton, used to tell me that while in high school my mother, Margaret, haughtily declared that she was British. I often wondered why she would have said this because she was only partially of English descent. It may have been her identification with Canada as part of the British Empire and her father’s involvement in the Canadian military that impressed upon her British national pride. Bill had roots in England so that was probably part of it, too.

The war ended on 11 November 1918 when Bill was 3 months shy of 20 years old, but he continued his work as a Canadian intelligence officer. By 1928, for some reason that is unknown to us, he was residing in San Juan, Puerto Rico.

At the age of 29, Bill married my grandmother, Mary Matheson Emery, in San Juan on 18 December 1928. They were head over heels in love. The news must have devastated his mother because she died eight days later (tongue-in-cheek, of course, bless her soul). Alternatively, she died because she had fulfilled her purpose in life: one of her children had gotten married (again, tongue-in-cheek).

My mother, Flora Margaret Collins, was born in Santurce, San Juan about ten months after their marriage, on 1 October 1929.

Their second child, Maryann Etta, was born on 20 December 1931 in Nyack, New York. I have no idea what they might have been doing in Nyack, but maybe my cousins can shed light on this. Were they celebrating Christmas there with someone? Were they stuck there by some stroke of misfortune? About two weeks later, on 7 January 1932, Bill, Mary, Margaret, baby Maryann and Mary’s mother, Flora, traveled by ship from New York to San Juan, Puerto Rico.

In July 1933, Bill traveled from San Juan to Philadelphia, Pennsylvania, accompanied by Mary; their two daughters; and his mother-in-law, Flora Emery. Their eventual destination was Detroit, Michigan, where his siblings were residing and where Bill and his family would stay in the Lexington Hotel. Ship records indicate that Bill said he was of Irish nationality. His mother was certainly Irish, but it surprises me that he would claim to be Irish and my mother, as I’ve mentioned, declared that she was English. It could also have been a mistake.

Bill’s father had died in March 1933. Did Bill, in fact, travel to Canada for the funeral in March? Did he agree in March to make a trip to Detroit to be with his siblings in July?

Bill was 37 when his brother, John Henry, died in Toronto. Two years later, his brother, Roy, died in Bay City, Michigan.

Sometime prior to 1938, Bill and his family had moved to Halifax, Nova Scotia.

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WJC with his daughters

William James Collins, in Halifax, Nova Scotia, around 1939? My mother and Maryann were freezing! It must have been a special occasion. Had the girls insisted on being so under-dressed? I can’t imagine who decided on posing for this photo, but I’m glad we have it.

Canada entered World War II on 10 September 1939 and Bill was pressed into service again. Less than a year later, Bill died in Sydney, Nova Scotia at the age of 41.

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Bill with his daughter, Margaret

The family story we had been told is that he was killed in WWII, shot in an alley in the middle of the night, because he was a military spy. We don’t know if any of this story is true. It’s possible that the story developed over time, embellished by a family remembering their hero. We do know that he was serving in the Canadian special forces, involved in gathering intelligence and that this story may actually be accurate. The cause of death on his death certificate, “heart disease,” has not dissuaded some of us from continuing to believe the spy-assassination story because there may have been a cover-up.

WJC death cert

WJC obituary

Many thanks to Kristina Gottman Miller for sending me Bill’s death certificate and obituary.

Bill was dearly missed by his family members. His daughter, Margaret, would relate that her father sat her down upon his knee and told her that he would not live to see her turn 14. He said that God had shown him a picture of what she would look like and she was beautiful. His prescience, combined with the fact that his two brothers had died recently, may indicate that Bill had a serious health issue and knew that he would not live much longer.

Bill was originally buried in Toronto, Canada, but his ashes were later moved to Orlando, Florida, where his wife, Mary, was living and where she was later buried.

Helen Agnes Smith

Great-grandparent – 1 of 8 in this generation

(1902-1989)

Helen was born on 16 September 1902 in Albany, New York, the eldest of two children born to Ellis Burton Smith and Marion Eloise Hawkins.

She earned her degree in Art and spent many long hours at her easel capturing a view, which she would interpret in watercolors. She had a booth once at the Mystic Art Festival. Helen married Percy Clifton Dutton in Tarrytown, NY and they had three children. Helen spent her family vacations at East Falmouth, Massachusetts, on Cape Cod. Later in life, she resided with her son, Kenneth, and family. Helen became a Jehovah’s Witness and devoted much of her time to Bible study.

Children of Percy Clifton DUTTON and Helen Agnes Smith:

1. Kenneth Wells Dutton

2. Living

3. Marion Eloise

Helen died on 9 November 1989 in New London, Connecticut, and was buried in Johnston, Rhode Island.

Percy Clifton Dutton

Great-grandparent – 1 out of 8 in this generation

(1897-1978)

Percy was born in 1897 in Yonkers, New York, the son of Frederick Osbon Dutton and Ida Wilhelmina Breithack. Below is a picture of his baptismal certificate, in German, issued by St. John’s Evangelical Lutheran Church, Yonkers.

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Above, Ida holding Ada; probably Ida’s youngest sister; Percy and Fred in front.

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Percy married Helen Agnes Smith in Tarrytown, Westchester, NY in 1928 and they started their family in Nutley, New Jersey. During the Great Depression, Percy had been unemployed in New Jersey but was hired right off the unemployment line to work as a professional engineer for Goodyear Rubber Co. in Providence, Rhode Island. The entire family, including Percy’s sister and mother, moved first to Cranston, RI and then to Warwick, RI.

Percy spent vacations in East Falmouth, Massachusetts, on Cape Cod where he built a cottage and served as the president of the Pinecrest Beach Association. He resided with his son, Kenneth, and family in Connecticut later in life. Percy enjoyed smoking cigars and blowing smoke rings through bigger smoke rings. He also enjoyed making his own delicious pizza, having family picnics, playing croquet and sitting by the fire on a cold night. Religion: Methodist.

Percy (right) with Uncle Ken Smith (left), Percy in photo on the right

Census records

  • 1900 – Yonkers, Westchester, NY
  • 1910 – Yonkers, Westchester, NY
  • 1920 – Yonkers, Westchester, NY
  • 1930 – Nutley, Passaic, NJ
  • 1940 – Warwick, Kent, RI

Percy died of pneumonia in Kent County Hospital, Warwick on 28 January 1978. He was buried in the family plot at Highland Memorial Park, Johnston, Rhode Island.