Guilford, Connecticut

On July 1, 2018, on probably the hottest day of the year, Marco and I explored some sites in Guilford. First, we strolled around the town green, which has paved walkways criss-crossing the nearly 12 acres of lawn and shade trees.

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I was impressed with the beauty of the “park,” but Marco corrected me and said, “cemetery.” He was not pleased that the sacred Village Green Cemetery was disguised as a park and used for concerts, picnics and various other public activities. It didn’t bother me, but I would have liked to see a memorial recognizing the people whose bodies were buried there. Did we miss it, somehow? The tombstones were all moved many years ago, but the graves remain.

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It was the first time we had been to a cemetery where both my ancestors and his are buried. Erik P.’s ancestors are here, too, and they were all part of the same community about 375 years ago. Marco and I have 15 ancestors there, combined; Erik has 4. I created “faux tombstones” for visual impact.

Barbara’s ancestors:

Aaron Blatchley and Mary Dodd are also ancestors of my cousin, Kristin. Aaron and Mary had 10 children; among them were my ancestor, Thomas, and Kristin’s ancestor, Samuel. Samuel married and established his family in Stamford, Connecticut.

Marco’s ancestors:

 

Erik’s ancestors:

 

Voyage to the New World

Marco’s and Erik P.’s ancestors came to Connecticut Colony in the company of Puritan minister Henry Whitfield. Whitfield himself was Marco and Erik’s 10th great-grandfather. They sailed over during the turbulence of the English Civil War, when Charles I and Archbishop William Laud exerted arbitrary injustice upon religious dissidents.

Prior to their arrival in the New World, male passengers signed a plantation covenant, pledging to live together in community. It became known as the Guilford Covenant and is similar to and perhaps as significant as the Mayflower Compact.

GUILFORD COVENANT – signed June 1639

We whose names are here underwritten, intending by God’s gracious permission to plant ourselves in New England, and if it may be, in the southerly part about Quinnipiack, do faithfully promise each, for ourselves and our families and those that belong to us, that we will, the Lord assisting us, sit down and join ourselves together in one entire plantation, and be helpful each to the other in any common work, according to every man’s ability, and as need shall require, and we promise not to desert or leave each other or the plantation, but with the consent of the rest, or the greater part of the company who have entered into this engagement. As to our gathering together in a church way and the choice of officers and members to be joined in that way, we do refer ourselves, until such time as it please God to settle us in our plantation. In witness whereof we subscribe our names, this first of June 1639.

Signers of the Guilford Covenant:

  • Robert Kitchell – brother of Marco’s 10th great-grandmother, Lady Elizabeth Kitchell Rucke
  • Abraham Cruttenden – brother of Erik’s ancestor, Elizabeth Cruttenden Graves
  • John Housegoe
  • John Mepham
  • William Plane
  • John Bishop – Marco’s 10th great-grandfather
  • William Chittenden
  • Thomas Jones
  • Thomas Naish
  • John Stone
  • Francis Bushnell
  • Henry Doude
  • John Jordan – Marco’s 9th great-grandfather; brother of Erik’s 9th great-grandfather, Thomas Jordan
  • William Noble
  • William Stone
  • Francis Chatfield
  • William Dudley
  • Henry Kingstone
  • Thomas Norton
  • Richard Guttridge
  • Thomas Cooke – Marco’s 9th great-grandfather
  • John Hoadley
  • William Leete – Erik’s 9th great-grandfather
  • John Parmarly – Marco’s 10th great-grandfather
  • Rev. Henry Whitfield – Marco and Erik’s 10th great-grandfather

In 2014, Guilford memorialized its original covenant on an enormous granite slab which is on display outside the Whitfield House Museum. The rededication says volumes about the significance of the covenant and the original founding of Guilford to its current residents.

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The Guilford Covenant on granite slab, Henry Whitfield House Museum. Photo taken by B.D. Gaylord, 7/1/18

 

The Henry Whitfield House

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The home, which is the oldest stone home in New England, also functioned as an emergency shelter for the town residents. Historians say that the construction of emergency shelter seemed prudent due to the recent Pequot War in 1637. Although the war was over, signs of it remained. For instance, during the war, one of the Pequot sachems was chased to Guilford and killed there in what became known as Bloody Cove. His head was lodged in a tree and remained there for years – the area is still known as Sachem’s Head. The scene did not exactly present a warm welcome to the newcomers. Pictured below is an artist’s rendition of the sachem’s head – I couldn’t avoid my shadow in the picture – which is on display at the Whitfield House.

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An extraordinary statue of a very handsome Rev. Henry Whitfield stands directly outside the museum. Interestingly enough, there was no portrait of Whitfield, so his likeness was entirely a creation of the artist’s imagination.

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For additional reading, I recommend the Connecticut Museum Quest, one of my favorite sites for its entertaining take on Connecticut history; and Miner Descent, another favorite.

The Menunkatuck Trail (now part of the New England National Scenic Trail (NET))

A spur of the NET enters the grounds of the Whitfield House and extends to the woods behind the barn. It offers a good opportunity to take in the beauty and history of the museum (and grab some water) near the beginning or the end of the trail, depending on where the hike begins. As someone who has trekked much of the NET, some of it many times over, I was thrilled to know this. Here are a few pictures of the spur.

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Andrew Leete Historic Marker

The Honorable Andrew Leete (Erik’s 8th great-grandfather) played a fascinating role in Connecticut history. The story is well told by Connecticut Museum Quest, as well as Connecticuthistory.org, so I will simply summarize it briefly. Sir Edmund Andros was governor of the Dominion of New England until the 1689 Boston Revolt. His governance was supposed to include Connecticut, but then governor Robert Treat (Merle’s 8th great-grandfather) was stalling in submitting to Andros’ authority. Andros finally demanded the charter at a meeting in Hartford. Andrew Leete is credited with extinguishing the candles while Joseph Wadsworth ran away with the charter and hid it in the hollow of a huge oak tree. Since then, the charter oak has been an enduring symbol for Connecticut. The name has been used by a bank, college, vineyard, brewery and numerous other businesses.

Andrew Leete historical marker
88 Broad Street, Guilford, CT

 

David Kennedy

7th great-grandparent – 1 of 512 504 in this generation

(1683-1732)

David Kennedy (or Canady) was born on 7 July 1683 in Salem, Massachusetts, to Daniel Canady, 31, and Hannah Cook, 28.

When David was just 11 years old, his father passed away on 11 June 1695 in Salem, at the age of 38.

David was the first settler of Hampton, Connecticut, which at that time was called, “Canada Parish.”

In December, 1716, the town, in answer to a petition of the people, consented ” that the northeast part be a parish,” receiving one-fourth part of John Cates’ legacy, and having two hundred pounds returned to them as rebate on what they had paid toward the new meeting house at Windham. The town then petitioned the general assembly to grant a charter to the new parish. This petition was dated May 9th, 1717.. The petition was at once granted and the new society described in boundaries as follows: 11 Beginning at Canterbury line, to run westerly in the south line of Thomas Lasell’s lot, and so in direct course to Merrick’s brook, and then the said brook to be the line until it intersects the present road that leads from said town to the Burnt Cedar swamp, and from thence a straight line to the brook that empties itself into Nauchaug river about the middle of Six Mile Meadow, at the place where Mansfield line crosseth the said brook.” The new parish comprised all of Windham that lay north of this line. The name given to it was Canada parish, from the name of David Canada, who, it is believed, built the first house in this section and kept the first tavern. [emphasis added]

Source: History of Windham County, Connecticut, Bayles, Richard M.; New York: W.W. Preston, 1889


The first settler to arrive in the part of Connecticut later known as the Town of Hampton was David Canada, who came there from Salem, Massachusetts in 1709.[3]

Source: F.S.M. Crofut, Guide to the History and Historic Sites of Connecticut, New Haven: Yale University Press, 1937, v.2.


 

At the very respectable age of 35, David married Margaret Lambert in Windham, Connecticut, on 5 November 1718.

According to various sources available on the internet, Margaret (Lambert) Canada died in 1728. According to (mostly) the same sources, her son, Daniel, was born in 1730. I’m pretty sure that’s a problem (sigh), but I’m not prepared to resolve it at this time.

David died in Hampton, Connecticut on 28 November 1732, two years after Daniel was born.

 

 

 

Mary Mulford

7th great-grandparent – 1 of 512 504  in this generation

(1674-1714)

Mary Mulford was born in 1674 in East Hampton, New York, to Captain Samuel Mulford, 30, and Esther Conkling, 21.

She married her first cousin, David Conklin, sometime prior to 1694 when their first child was born in East Hampton, Suffolk, New York. Mary and David had 11 children:

  1. Jeremiah, b.about 1694 East Hampton, New York
  2. David, b.about 1696 East Hampton
  3. Lucy, b.about 1698 East Hampton
  4. Sarah, b.about 1700 East Hampton, m. Isaac Barnes
  5. Patience, b.about 1700 East Hampton, m. John Parsons
  6. Samuel
  7. Simon, b.1705, “killed with thunder,” = struck and killed by lightning?
  8. Keziah, b.about 1707 East Hampton, d.1726
  9. Rachel
  10. Temperance, b.1712, m. Timothy Miller, d.23 Nov 1740
  11. Jane, b.22 February 1714 East Hampton

Mary died at the age of 40 on 30 March 1714 in East Hampton, just weeks after her infant daughter, Jane, was born. She left a large family, including several small children. Some of her children were old enough to help out and probably took over the household and family responsibilities.

 

 

 

David Conklin

7th great-grandparent – 1 of 512 504 in this generation

(c.1667-1738)

David was born in Long Island City, Queens, New York about 1667 to Jeremiah Conklin,33, and Mary Gardiner, 29. His brother was our ancestor, Cornelius Conklin/Conkling.

He married his first cousin, Mary Mulford, sometime prior to 1694 when their first child was born in East Hampton, Suffolk, New York. David and Mary had 11 children:

  1. Jeremiah, b.about 1694 East Hampton, New York
  2. David, b.about 1696 East Hampton
  3. Lucy, b.about 1698 East Hampton
  4. Sarah, b.about 1700 East Hampton, m. Isaac Barnes
  5. Patience, b.about 1700 East Hampton, m. John Parsons
  6. Samuel
  7. Simon, b.1705, “killed with thunder,” = struck and killed by lightning?
  8. Keziah, b.about 1707 East Hampton, d.1726
  9. Rachel
  10. Temperance, b.1712, m. Timothy Miller, d.23 Nov 1740
  11. Jane, b.1714 East Hampton

David died in East Hampton on 4 Dec 1738 and was buried there in South End Cemetery. Click here for his record on findagrave.com.

 

Lydia Bushnell

7th great-grandparent – 1 of 512 504 in this generation

(1712-1769)

Lydia Bushnell was born on 6 July 1712 in Old Saybrook, Connecticut, to William Bushnell, and Katherine Jordan, who were both 32 years of age.

Lydia was 20 when her father died in Old Saybrook, Connecticut at the age of 53.

At the age of 21, Lydia married John Fielding Post in Westbrook, Connecticut, on 2 September 1733. They had at least six children:

  1. Lydia, b.1834
  2. Ann, b.1835
  3. John, b.1838
  4. Temperance, b.1841
  5. Isaiah, b.1842
  6. Joshua, b.1843

Two of her children, Lydia and Joshua, were our ancestors. Further complicating the family tree, Lydia (Jr.) would later become the mother of two of our ancestors, Lydia and Hannah Stannard.

Lydia was 38 when her mother died in Old Saybrook at the age of 70.

When she was 41, her husband, John, passed away in Westbrook at the age of 53. They had been married 20 years.

Nine years later, at the age of 50, Lydia married Hezekiah Whittlesley, a widower and father of at least 7 children.

Seven years later, she died on 10 July 1769 in Old Saybrook at the age of 57.

 

John Post

7th great-grandparent – 1 of 512 504 in this generation

(1700-1754)

John was born on 16 June 1700 in Old Saybrook, Middlesex, Connecticut, to Elizabeth Stevens and Abraham Post, who were both 31 years old.

At the age of 33, John married Lydia Bushnell in Westbrook, Connecticut, on September 2, 1733. They had at least six children:

  1. Lydia, b.1834
  2. Ann, b.1835
  3. John, b.1838
  4. Temperance, b.1841
  5. Isaiah, b.1842
  6. Joshua, b.1843

Two of his children, Lydia and Joshua, were our ancestors. Further complicating the family tree, Lydia (Jr.) would later become the mother of our ancestors, Lydia and Hannah Stannard.

When John was 38, his mother died in Westbrook at the age of 70. His father died in Old Saybrook when John was 47.

John Post died on 21 May 1754 in Westbrook when he was nearly 54 years old.

John Stannard, Sr.

7th great-grandparent – 1 of 512 504 in this generation

(1694-1722)

John was born on 24 August 1694 in Old Saybrook, Connecticut, to Joseph Stannard, 31, and Hannah Brackett, 26.

He was just 8 years old when his father died on 17 April 1703 in New London, Connecticut, at the age of 35.

At the age of 20, on 17 Aug 1717, John married Hannah Jordan, the widow of Samuel Bate, in Old Saybrook. It seems Hannah must have died within the next five years.

John married 2nd Rachel Conkling in East Hampton, New York, on 10 January 1722, when he was 27 years old. Rachel was the daughter of Cornelius Conkling and Mary Dayton. Her 1st cousin was our ancestor, Jane Conkling.

His son, John, Jr., was born in Old Saybrook later the same year, on 8 October 1722.

Bethia Kelsey

7th great-grandparent – 1 of 512 504 in this generation

(1701-1779)

Bethia was born on 22 May 1701 in Killingworth, Middlesex, Connecticut, to John Kelsey, 29, and Phebe Crane, 28. She was the sister of our ancestor, Daniel Kelsey.

At the age of 23, she married, as his 2nd wife, her 1st cousin, Nathaniel Parmelee, in Killingworth on 17 March 1725.

Bethia and Nathaniel had 12 children, in addition to a child born during Nathaniel’s first marriage. Their 12 children were:

  1. Sybil Parmelee, b.1725-1815
  2. Barry Parmelee, b.1727
  3. Phebe Parmelee, b.1728/29-1774
  4. Eliab Parmelee, b.1730/31
  5. Jemima Parmelee, b.1732-1742
  6. Dinah Parmelee, b.1734
  7. Mabel Parmelee, b.26 Mar 1736 in Killingworth
  8. Nathaniel Parmelee, b.1738, d.1742
  9. Bethiah Parmelee, b.1738, d.1738
  10. Elihu Parmelee, d.1740/41
  11. Ozias Parmelee, b.1741/42
  12. Nathaniel Parmelee, b.1744

When Bethia was 27, her mother, Phebe, died in Hartford, Connecticut at the age of 55.

She was 49 when her father passed away on 19 September 1750 at the age of 78.

When she was 51, Bethia lost her husband, Nathaniel. He was 55 years old and they had been married for 27 years.

Bethia died on 25 July 1779 in Killingworth at the age of 78.

 

Nathaniel Parmelee

7th great-grandparent – 1 of 512 504 in this generation

(1697-1752)

Nathaniel was born on 10 May 1697 in Killingworth, Middlesex, Connecticut, to Nathaniel Parmelee, 25, and Esther Kelsey, 21.

At the age of 25, Nathaniel married Ann Post, the daughter of Abraham Post and Elizabeth Stevens, in Killingworth on 5 September 1722. Ann was the sister of our ancestor John Post. They had one child:

  1. Ann Parmelee, b.23 Aug 1723 in Killingworth

Nathaniel’s wife, Ann, died on 10 September 1723, less than three weeks after the birth of their only child.

At the age of 27, Nathaniel was remarried to his 1st cousin, 23-year-old Bethia Kelsey in Killingworth on 17 March 1725. They had 12 children:

  1. Sybil Parmelee, b.1725-1815
  2. Barry Parmelee, b.1727
  3. Phebe Parmelee, b.1728/29-1774
  4. Eliab Parmelee, b.1730/31
  5. Jemima Parmelee, b.1732-1742
  6. Dinah Parmelee, b.1734
  7. Mabel Parmelee, b.26 Mar 1736 in Killingworth
  8. Nathaniel Parmelee, b.1738, d.1742
  9. Bethiah Parmelee, b.1738, d.1738
  10. Elihu Parmelee, d.1740/41
  11. Ozias Parmelee, b.1741/42
  12. Nathaniel Parmelee, b.1744

He was 38 when his daughter, Mabel, was born on 26 March 1736 in Killingworth.

On 15 October 1752, at the age of 55, Nathaniel died in Killingworth and was buried there in Union Cemetery. He lived a relatively short life, but left a large family behind to carry on. His wife, Bethia, lived another 27 years.

Click here to view his record on findagrave.com.

 

 

Lydia Post

6th great-grandparent – 1 of 256 254 in this generation

AND 7th great-grandparent – 1 of 512 504 in this generation

(1734-1801)

Lydia was born on 11 July 1734 in Old Saybrook, Connecticut, to Lydia Bushnell, 22, and John Post, 34. Her brother was our ancestor, Joshua Post.

Lydia married John Stannard of Westbrook and they had several children, including Lydia, who was born in 1763, and Hannah, who was born about 1766.

Lydia and John are our second pair of duplicate ancestors.

When Lydia was 35, her mother died in Old Saybrook, Connecticut at the age of 57.

Her daughter, Lydia, passed away on 16 January 1796 at the age of 32.

Lydia died on 7 April 1801 in Westbrook, Connecticut at the age of 66. She was buried there in the Old Burying Ground. Click here for her record on findagrave.com.